Category: play

Playing is important for growth

  • Trip To The Dentist and Lunch

    I seldom spend much time with El, so we had a great time out together on Saturday. I took him to the dentist for his check-up. When he got into the car, I asked him whether he wanted to listen to the radio, which had bossa nova or some jazz genre on, or the Three Little Pigs and other children’s songs which I got after watching The Frog Prince the other day. He chose the former, which delighted me as he has good taste.

    One day before his visit, I informed him that we were going to the dentist the next day, and he just said, “Oh, ok.” He also asked whether it was at Novena, and I said yes. In the car, he asked me the route to the place. We chatted about the traffic, and soon reached the place.

    We went to the old unit, and the receptionist at the clinic for adults brought us to the dental clinic for children. There was a room filled with toys and kitchen sets. He loved the place and kept cooking. An older girl was inside, and he was asked by her mother how old he was in Mandarin. He understood it, but probably did not feel confident enough to answer, so he just showed four fingers and smiled.

    playing at the dentist
    playing at the dentist

    After they left, he asked me to go in to sit on the couch. Immediately, he tried to serve me tea and brought food to me. He saw the xylophone, and started hitting C, and singing Doe, a deer, and all the way up to the top. Unfortunately, I did not manage to film this part. I got him to sing other songs. Sometimes he can be on pitch, but sometimes he goes flat.

    Suddenly, I observed that he needed to go to the toilet, so I brought him out. I wanted to bring him to the ladies, but there were two people waiting for the two cubicles, and I doubted that he could wait that long. Hence, I brought him to a handicapped washroom. We went in, locked the door, and I carried him to pee. The last time I did that at Vivocity, my entire shoes were wet and his pants were wet too. This time round, everything went smoothly until I put him down.

    He spotted a red button that was about 40 cm above the ground, which was just prominent enough to him. It must have screamed, “Push me!”, which he did, and immediately, a loud shrill wail of siren sounded, and we both were shocked. Immediately, I looked around for a cancel button which was non-existent, pulled up his pants, opened the door, and bolted without washing our hands. It was even louder outside, and we both covered our ears. Other people walked past and stared at us. We ran back to the safe sanctuary at the dental clinic, and he tried to explain to me that he had no idea that the button would lead to the alarm being sounded. The receptionist tried to tell him not to do that anymore, but I guess he had learnt his lesson for the time being.

    Fortunately I was armed with Dettol wet wipes, so I cleaned both our hands. He went back in to play. Finally we were called in, and the dentist, Dr Ng, remembered us. I wondered whether she had a mega memory, or she took down notes of our conversations. She remembered Gar, and also that El was in N2. She also remembered that I had complained about El’s poor eating habits when we were done.

    I really like the clinic, as it is geared towards young children. There were many toys inside the treatment room. This time round, they had added a TV screen for the children to watch, just like what a hair salon for children had been doing. The nurse asked him whether he wanted blue or pink shades, and he requested for the blue shades. He proceeded to put it upside down, and they had to put it on for him. However, he found it too dark, so he lifted it half the time to watch the TV screen.

    She checked his teeth, and cleaned it. When he was younger, he could not gargle. He would usually swallow the water, but this time round, he managed to gargle properly, and spat the water out. Dr Ng then started removing the tartar, which she said was due to the calcium in his saliva. There were no cavities, so everything was fine.
    She let him choose stickers, and he selected Ultraman. We had watched Ultraman a few times on Hello! Japan, a free channel on Starhub cable. There were Ben 10 stickers, but I think he did not like them much.

    playing with cooking set
    playing with cooking set

    After the visit, we waited outside, and he went back in to play. He had actually messed up the whole place, and I wanted to rush back, but I decided to make him clean up. He kept all the kettles and cups in an oven, and then kept the vegetables in the stove cupboard.

    We then took the lift and went to the car. However, he suddenly declared he was hungry and wanted to eat. I thought he had eaten at his grandparents’ place, but he was quite insistent about eating. I brought him down and immediately he queued up at Old Town. We had gone there a few times before. I was not hungry, so I took him away. I thought I could get away with buying pancakes, but he was pouting, and stating he wanted to eat Nasi Padang, whatever that was.
    mee siam
    In the end, we went back to Old Town. I took the menu and asked him what he wanted to eat. I thought he wanted Nasi Lemak, but he chose Mee Siam from the set lunch menu. That was the cheapest. I asked the waitress to remove the chili seeds, but she said the dish was spicy. He was ok with that, and so we ordered it any way.

    When it arrived, he started eating, and said it was nice. I was pleasantly surprised, and he ate quite a fair bit, except for the sambal. He loved the cucumbers too, but did not like the seeds. He ate and his face was all red and oily. He saw the pepper, and wanted that. I was afraid it would be too hot for him, and just shook a little bit on the side. He tried that and said it was delicious. Then, he took the soy sauce, but ended up pouring a lot. Thank goodness he had already eaten most of the fried vermicelli. I suspect he likes food with strong flavours.

    I had actually planned to rush back to pick up Gar, but we were delayed, so we decided to meet elsewhere. Despite the other shopping mall was just a 5-minute walk away, it took me more than 20 minutes to drive over due to the heavy traffic.

    Lunch at Old Town
    Lunch at Old Town

    He then went to walk around with his father, and apparently he ate again at McDonalds. He had fries and some nuggets and half a bun. I really hope that his increase in appetite was due to the alleviation of blocked nose, after being diagnosed by a doctor he used to go to when he was young. The doctor mentioned that he was more than 2kg lighter than the lowest acceptable range for his age group, and it was due to his laboured breathing. He was actually breathing with his stomach moving, rather than using the full capacity of his lungs.

    I went to buy a cheese cake for my snack, and the kids managed to get free rides on the kiddy rides. We never put money in because we did not want to encourage them to play that. They enjoyed the ride, and Gar managed to stay on without trying to climb down. I saw the girl and her mother from the dental clinic at this shopping mall too.

    After that, I wanted to go to the restroom, but the entire level three was filled with tonnes of parents with the children waiting for enrichment classes to start or end. I did not want to use the toilets there, so I told them to go down to the second floor. El had just managed to navigate the escalators properly, so I was surprised when he did not go down, and I had already moved down. When we reached the bottom, he told me he had just seen his friend, Ash. He went on and on, saying his friend was wearing a blue top, and he wanted to meet him. I had no choice but to bring him up again. I carried him around, but could not see his friend. I wondered whether he had really seen him. Finally, just as I wanted to go down to the second floor again, I spotted him being carried by his mother. He refused to turn and say hi to El, and the mother said he was throwing a tantrum. El was very disappointed, but we went off after a while. When we finally left, he was really tired.

  • Overcoming Fear – Weeeee

    Overcoming Fear – Weeeee

    It was El’s friend’s 4th birthday party. It was held at Amazonia, an indoor playground at Great World City. He was a little uncertain about going up, so I went along with him. There was a giant slide, about two to three storeys high, and we climbed up together. When he reached the top, he froze, and did not want to go down the slide. He refused to play. When he saw his classmates, he called out to them softly and told them that it was dangerous. However, they ignored him and simply went down the slide.

    ball pit
    playing in the ball pit

    I tried to get him to climb the other places, but certain areas were just nettings, and he must have been paralysed by his fear of heights, and he simply did not want to play. He spent most of his time in the ball pit area, and playing with his brother at the area for 3 years and below.

    I tried to go down the slide with him. It was actually quite dangerous to go down the slide together, as I had read before that more accidents happen when an adult went down the slide together with the child. However, he had to be persuaded a few times before he did that.

    Two months later, I brought him to the same place. This time round, he refused to explore the place, and he spent most of his time at the young children area. For more than 1.5 hours, he did not play at other places. Finally, we accompanied him again on the slide. This time round, I asked him to go down first, while I held back. He managed to slide down a little. I quickly went to the slide beside him, and slid down, waving at him. When he realised that he had actually slid down on his own, it was as if he was being released from a cage. He continued down on his own. It helped that we were wearing jeans, so the friction slowed us down, and it was not that scary. When we reviewed a video of them going down the slide, I noticed that El engaged in dangerous behaviour by switching lanes midway.

    Going down a giant slide
    Going down a giant slide

    Subsequently, he kept going down the slide. Even Gar wanted to go on the big slide, and his father accompanied Gar. From totally unwilling to can’t wait to have more fun, it was time to go. He had to be persuaded to leave.

    We really need to expose our children more, and get them to take chances more often instead of being scared of everything.

  • How To Bring A Book Alive – Experiments And Games

    El used to attend an enrichment centre, and I quite like some of the activities where the children would conduct science experiments or engage in games related to a book.

    One famous book, I’m going on a bear hunt, was used by the teachers to create an exploration for the children. They made the children walk through a puddle of water (a basin of water was placed there), walk through tall grasses (streamers were used), and then wandered into a dark cave (lights were switched off). The children were led through the entire room. Experiential learning takes place, and the students had fun.

    There is another story about a crow who searches for water, only to find water in a narrow beak jar. The teacher wore a mask of a crow, and then tried to drink water from a jar. True enough, she could not reach the water. Then, she guided the children to place pebbles into the jar, and true enough, the water level rose and the beak could finally reach the water.

    On another occasion, there was a story about a little pig who was a postman. It delivered letters for the other animals. The teachers made a card box to resemble a mail box, and children had to deliver letters. They had to hop through a path, and climb up a few steps to deliver a letter.

    One more lesson that I could remember was to teach the children about fishing and magnets. The children went around the room to attract fish with a magnetic fishing rod. There is a good example here about a simple activity of fishing with magnetsyou can do at home. They had also used little nets to catch fish toys. They also learnt the concept of density, where certain items float, while others sink.

    Fishing with magnets by billaday
    Fishing with magnets by billaday

    I enjoyed the lessons more than my son did, as he was pretty non-responsive then, but then again, he was very young then. Perhaps if there was more room for quiet time, he might have enjoyed them more. However, the school did a good job of incorporating science and other activities into the story telling.

    Unfortunately, I don’t have the time and energy to try to bring these books alive, apart from the use of my voice when reading books with El. I am not sure whether his current school teaches science.

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